Love is blind, and so is ableism.

I never accept follow requests from strangers. But that day, I did. Maybe it was the Valentine air, the scent of flowers in full bloom, or just an impulsive desire that made me not only accept but also reply to a stranger’s Instagram message. His profile wasn’t the usual shady Delhi boy aesthetic—no forced gym selfies, no flashy cars. Instead, he had a staggering 11k followers, the title of a lawyer, and the look of someone from a well-off family. Two days into our conversations—smooth, effortless, almost like we’d known each other before—he asked me to meet. Of course. Now, you must be thinking, how was this a blind date if we had already seen each other’s pictures? Not just one, but many—carefully curated Instagram posts, giving us a fair idea of what the other looked like. But I’ll tell you why it was still blind. Because here came the obstacle —my disability. Online dating and blind dates are not for the faint-hearted, that’s true. But when it comes to someone with a disa...